For someone that questions this as a reality, often the only way to integrate the belief as their own truth is to experience the process either through a personal spiritual occurrence, or with the assist of a reliable medium.

An angry skeptic is a different matter. An angry skeptic has an intense desire to prove to anyone that will listen, that nothing is real outside of the world of matter that can't be physically observed. An angry skeptic will be completely annoying in their pursuit to convince others that it is nonsense to believe that there is anything left of us following the change of death. Just as annoying as a religious fanatic might be to the opposite extreme.

We have experiences that cause feelings that do not correlate with what we knew while we lived at the spirit level. As a result, many of us push aside much of our inner knowing in order to deal with what we experience in the physical world.

When our human experience creates fear, anger or simple unrest, our spirit-self can become less evident to us, somewhat hidden in the whirlwind of confusion over what we knew to be and what we are faced with in our earthly condition.

You can send your thoughts of caring, healing energies to the source of confusion for those that have become an angry skeptic. And with that blessing you can choose to dash the other way when you see one coming! 

Fears that seem small or insignificant can be linked to fear of the unknown. Striving to lessen even the most trivial of fears (spiders?!) is not a wasted effort.

Our inherent goodness can be stripped from us in time of anger, created by the fear of loss.

Unwarranted fear should not interfere with your longing for loving communication with someone that has passed to the spirit side of life.

A Spiritualist Medium serves with confidence that communication will be open to those who come with love for their family and friends that remain on the physical plane. It is the image of a Spirit without Love that contributes to fear when considering connection to spirit loved ones.

In my experience this is an unjustified fear, one brought by the fear of the unknown. Once you find that it is your intention and openness that attracts spirit loved ones to you, you'll know that no harm or reason to fear is at hand.

If your thoughts and emotions are overcome by fear or anger, the bridge to communication may collapse. Being consumed with fear or anger will not help to bring good things to you on any plane of vibration, including the material plane.